Tuesday, July 29, 2014
Friday, July 25, 2014
And The Leaves Will Fall Again
And The Leaves Will Fall Again
The blazing heat
Wilted the stones
Paved along the path
To the land of toil
In the long summer days
Oozing out the last drop
As the rising sun
Of an early dawn
Beckoned me.
The hot air
Of molten dust
Ushering me
Back to labour
To till across horizons
To sow
To water the parched
Seed bearing mud packs
With drops of sweat
With un-complained
Long forbearing.
And slog I will
Till the day when
Till the day when
Her wait will end
When together we will
Fill the harvest
Into the silo.
And the leaves will fall again
In the rolling fog
Engulfing
The auburn foliage
Of the Maple trees.
And we will brace ourselves
to brave the chill
With the grains of labour
For long dark nights
In the evening of life
Belonging to each other
Shrouded in the warmth
Of our togetherness.
Saturday, July 19, 2014
A Little Way By Frank Lebby Stanton
A Little Way
A
little way to walk with you, my own—
Only a little way,
Then one of us must weep and walk alone
Until God’s day.
A little way! It is so sweet to live
Together, that I know
Life would not have one withered rose to give
If one of us should go.
And if these lips should ever learn to smile,
With thy heart far from mine,
’T would be for joy that in a little while
They would be kissed by thine!
... By Frank Lebby
Stanton
Sunday, July 13, 2014
The Hidden Enemy Part I: Why we tend to be irrational.
Scientists of cognitive psychology have time and again
wondered at the irrational nature of humans, especially when it comes to taking
decisions. Even the most brilliant top brain is not free from this flaw and
will tend to be irrational when it comes to taking a real life decision, or wayward while interacting with people in his routine activities involving even the most insignificant things of everyday life.
A lot of effort is being made to understand this human flaw
in the West but no concrete or convincing explanation is forthcoming. The brain
chemistry too has been mapped but the mystery of illogical action continues to elude one and all
alike.
Sages in the Ancient India too were intrigued by this inexplicable flaw. By constant observation over centuries and meditating on their findings
they discovered that it is not a human flaw by default. They found that the
fault lies in the aham or ahankaar i.e. ego that gets engrossed in
the Human psyche as one grows up.
But over the tens of dozens of centuries, the meaning of these words changed and various
definitions of the word 'ego' surfaced, the result being that the findings of the
sages of Ancient India got lost.
Their findings were as simple as their living but the discoveries have tremendous possibility for the whole human race to live a
complete life without miseries.
They found out that a newly born child is equipped with enough
endowments to live a life in its entirety.
As the child grows, she sees the world around her and feels the world with the five senses bestowed upon it by the Mother Nature.
As the child grows, she sees the world around her and feels the world with the five senses bestowed upon it by the Mother Nature.
The child can see everything and an image of the properties
of everything around it gets formed in her mind in the form of knowledge or logic which she would use to her advantage by connecting these logics. That far the child is rational and would stick to
logic and will do everything exactly the way she had planned to do it and react to the result in the most mature way. Life will remain simple, disciplined and fulfilled.
The sages figured out that the real problem was in that the
child could see and feel everything but herself. Not being able to see herself she is not able to understand as to what exactly she is. As the child grows, she becomes
aware of people around her and what they think about her. The child sees herself through the impression reflected by the people around her, mostly based on how they treat her.
When she is appreciated, loved, encouraged, confirmed etc she feels good about herself and a self image is formed inside her mind in which she thinks she is good, brilliant, efficient, strong, fearless etc. When she is rejected, refuted or abused she feels bad about herself and a self image is formed inside her mind in which she thinks she is worthless, weak, dull, clumsy, fearful etc.
When she is appreciated, loved, encouraged, confirmed etc she feels good about herself and a self image is formed inside her mind in which she thinks she is good, brilliant, efficient, strong, fearless etc. When she is rejected, refuted or abused she feels bad about herself and a self image is formed inside her mind in which she thinks she is worthless, weak, dull, clumsy, fearful etc.
As she goes about the worldly activities and moves around in
the society which is ever increasing in size, she meets different type of people
in different circumstances, each person casting in her a good self image or a poor self image.
By and by a composite self image is formed in her which
consists of two broadly classified self images. One is the good self image
which makes her think of herself as possessing the ability in achieving things, having good looks, deserving respect etc and this self image makes her happy. Likewise the other image is a poor self image
which makes her feel sad. The problem now lies in the degree of goodness or
badness of the images, of which she has no idea and therefore she keeps on testing
the degree of goodness and/or badness about her through the reaction of people towards her and their opinions of
her.
Eventually, she starts to think of herself as the composite image that has taken
over her real self, The real self is now clouded and lost for ever. The false image now guides her.
This false composite image is called aham or ahankar or ego.
This false composite image is called aham or ahankar or ego.
She now goes about her adult life and lives with two images simultaneously. Every
time she thinks that her good self image is confirmed she feels happy and
whenever she thinks that her poor self image is being validated, she feels miserable. In either
case she has become a slave to her ego and tends to act and behave irrationally to satisfy
her ego.
Full of futile and troubled preoccupation, her life becomes miserable.
Click here for Part-II of this article.
Saturday, July 12, 2014
In The Ensemble
In The Ensemble
It is just
once,
When the
heart
Doesn't crave,
For all that
is gone
And
Lost into
the past.
It was just
that once.
When everything
changed
Forever.
When
Borne by ourselves,
In that
astonishing
Incredibly
stupendous
Moment of unexpected
Ecstasy.
When
Reason stopped asking.
When
Life got endowed
With the purpose
Of being.
When I saw you
and you me and
together,
In each
other
In an ensemble
We saw us.
Before Midnight (2013): Movie review
Before Midnight
(2013)
In this sequel to
Before Sunrise, the romantic movie of 1995, and Before Sunset, the movie of
2004, you will now find the lead characters Celine and Jesse in their mid-forties.
Nine decades after
the previous movie, Celine and Jesse are now married and have twin daughters
and are having a get together at a friend’s house in Peloponnese in Greece. Just like its earlier prequels,
Before Midnight, is a story told over a period of 24 hours. The two much
admired and loved characters of earlier movies are caught in a relationship
that is at risk when Celine is struggling hard with her job while Jesse is a
bit down and out after dropping his son from his ex-wife at the airport.
Directed with
great finesse while handling a very explosive situation in married life, this
movie was nominated for academy awards in the best adapted screenplay category.
Before Midnight is a must watch.
We give it an 8.5
in a scale of 10.
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